Stress free wedding photography

A little guide to stress free photography

As I am a documentary style, unobtrusive photographer I want you to fully enjoy your day. I especially don't want you to be worrying about the photography.

Full details on how I prepare for your wedding day along with the pre-wedding meeting and venue visit can be found HERE

Here are a few suggestions that you may want to think about before your big day.

The style of photography you choose.

Different styles of photography will impact on your day in different ways.

If you have chosen to have very posed photographs throughout your day, you will spend more time away from your guests during couple portraits and be posing longer for group photos and at other times throughout the day.

Ask your photographer about how you can prepare.

If you have chosen someone like me and would like natural, candid photographs for most of the day with a few natural portraits and group photos there are still some things you can do to prepare beforehand.

Morning Preparation Photographs

To Tidy or Not to Tidy

Some spaces can be extremely calm, serene, tidy, just flowers and champagne.  Some spaces are very hectic, makeup everywhere, suitcases, food, music, MUAs, hair stylists, hairspray catching the breeze, curling tongs steaming, bridesmaids, mums and anyone else that drops by. Often as I arrive someone (often Mum) will say "Do you want me to tidy up, it's such a mess?"  Both are perfect for me and make for fabulous photos. But if you want the room to be tidy just let someone one in the wedding party know, so that they can keep an eye on things. 

What to wear.

As I will be taking candid photos before you step into your wedding and bridesmaids dresses, choose something to wear that you are happy to be photographed in. Many brides give special personalised gowns to their bridesmaids and any family that may be there, which is awesome. If this isn't the case, let everyone know that a photographer will be there in the morning and that they will be taking documentary, candid shots before dresses go on. Then everyone can wear something they feel comfortable in. 


The Details

I usually take lots of pictures of all the details. Dress, shoes, jewellery, flowers, special brooches for inside the bouquet and so on. Make sure bridesmaids know where everything is. I will have discussed with you at our meeting when you want the dress to be seen first and who by.

Documentary, candid, natural photography

I take these photos quietly, calmly in the background, allowing you to savour this special time.

If you have asked for totally candid, documentary, natural photos in the morning with nothing formally posed, it is important to let the rest of your wedding party know.

Different people have different ideas and thoughts on wedding photography. Someone in your bridal/groom party may suggest formal photos and get everyone to pose. If you did not want this, it can sometimes make things awkward and stressful at this time.  Something you do not want just before you walk down the aisle.

Formal /posed photos in the morning.

If you have asked to include some posed photos in the morning, just like for the candid photos, it is equally important to let the rest of the wedding party know. If you want some formal shots when everyone is ready everyone needs to know timings. We will have discussed these at our pre-wedding meeting so that there is no rushing or stress.

 Don't leave getting dresses on until the last minute. Always leave extra time to put your dress one. Especially if buttons need to be buttoned or ties need to be tied. Your bridal shop will have discussed timings with you. Don't forget to go to the loo before dress goes on! 

If you are getting ready at the ceremony location, bear in mind that the registrar will want to see you approximately ten minutes before your ceremony (bride or the partner that is walking down the aisle last) and all photos need to be taken before this. The registrar needs to start the ceremony on time and wont wait for the photographer!  Your partner will be seen approximately 30 minutes before the ceremony in the ceremony room. No photos can be taken during this meeting. After guests have started to arrive there is often very little time for formal photos. This is actually one of my favourite times for candid photos as the guests are being greeted as friends and family meet people they haven't seen for a while.   

 If travelling to a different venue for your ceremony you obviously need to factor posed photos into your schedule and let the wedding party know timings.

Also bear in mind that if your ceremony is in a different venue, your photographer will need to leave before you.  They need to find a parking space, unload and set up. They will be arriving after the majority of the guests and If a space could not be reserved it may mean a public carpark. I always look up carpark codes before hand so that I can pay on the app as I'm walking to the venue loaded down with equipment and ladder.   Even if you have a second photographer already at the ceremony venue (I can supply a second photographer on request), your first photographer will need to get to the ceremony on time. You don't need to worry about any of this but it does need to be considered when arranging timings for any formal photographs of the wedding party in the morning before leaving for the ceremony. Everything will be discussed at our pre-wedding meeting. So there is no stress on the day, everyone is in the right place at the right time and all is calm.

A few tips.

Remember to go to the loo and put perfume and deoderent on before you put your dress on.

Place your engagement ring on your other hand, so that wedding ring can easily be placed on the right finger.

Ask one of your bridesmaids to get a towel and dry off the stems before you and your bridesmaids hold the bouquets so that water doesn't drip down your dress. (Your florist will have told you about this.) But I may remind you.

Groom and groomsmen

The grooms room is often less hectic, just the boys getting ready, usually not long before the registrar arrives or just before everyone departments for the ceremony venue if in the different location. Photos of jackets going on, button holes being pinned and special cufflinks or socks make a nice addition to your story. I always ask at pre- wedding meetings if there are any special hidden items that would be nice to photograph. A gift from the bride or groom or anything that is hidden and not easy for me to see on the day, such as the date of the wedding embroidered inside the groom's jacket.

GROUP PHOTOS

I will always ask for a list of group photos that you would like along with details of the family dynamic., anyone with limited mobility and more.

At the pre-wedding meeting we will have discussed your preferred timings.

So that guests are can be located and delays do not occur  it is a good idea to let everyone know when the group photos will take place. Especially if guests need to check into their rooms.

 

 

     

     

 

 
       

 


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