I was delighted to be asked to photograph two days of celebrations for this wonderful couple. The first a stunning Sikh wedding in London followed by a gorgeous outdoor ceremony at Stoke Place.
The second day at Stoke Place can be viewed in Buckinghamshire wedding photography.
When planning for this wedding I had to think carefully about what to wear. It was important to dress appropriately and show respect for the Punjabi Sikh culture and traditions. My normal black trousers and jacket were definitely not going to be suitable. Colour was very important and I had to make sure that I was covered up including my head, but I also had to ensure that I could move easily whilst carrying all of my gear. Two heavy cameras (that I normally where on a harness) and a large belt with attachments containing batteries, lenses, memory cards etc. These had to be accessed quickly without getting tangled up and I didn't want to trip over. As I obviously wouldn't be running or climbing ladders inside the Gurdwara, I decided on a salwar kameez in a pale blue and coral.
I had arranged to park about a five minute walk away and arrived at 8am so that I was ready to take photos of the guests and the Groom arriving for the Milni at 8.30am. Having removed my shoes, washed my hands and secured the Dupatta on my head I walked into the stunning Gurdwara. As the families met, a short Ardaas (prayer) was recited by the Granthi (Sikh priest). A magnificent breakfast followed in the Langar Hall.
The Anand Karaj took place in the Diwan (Prayer Hall). After the customary matha tekh where worshippers walk to the Guru Granth Sahib, kneel and bow before it, touching their head to the ground, the guests sat down. The Groom Arun entered holding a rumala (silk cloth)as an offering. His sisters removed the Kalgi (jewel) from his turban as he took his place in front of the Guru Granth Sahib. The Raagis (Sikh musicians) sing shabads (hymns) in the background. The bride , Emma entered with her family and also offered a rumalla.
Following the Ardaas (prayer) and handing over of the Palla (red scarf) to signify their union they began the Lavaan Pheras. After each of the four marriage hymns were recited by the Granthi, the couple bowed to The Guru Granth Sahib and then slowly walked around it in a clockwise direction. Lavan literally means circling and describes marriage as a rite of passage into higher circles of existence. More prayers and hymns followed and Prasad (a blessed flour, butter and sugar pudding) was offered to the couple. When the Anand Karaj came to an end the family members gave their blessings to the couple and offered gifts during the Shagun.
Lunch was then served in the Langar Hall. As we were in a sacred place I took a very small number of posed photos of the couple in front of the magnificent window. Everyone made me feel so welcome and I loved photographing this amazing wedding full of colour and traditions.
